Whenever I hear or read the phrase "Sexism and the Superbowl" it reminds of "Sex and the City." So in my head this post is set to the "Sex and the City" theme song and read as a voice over for a stylish, yet empowering montage. Are you ready, ladies, acid tongued gay side kicks, and the occasional straight man who will most likely be the victim of over sharing? Good! Let's brunch!
There's no doubt that as usual there was some sexist stuff happening in the Superbowl ads and half time show:
You know that Audi ad where the nerd strides up to the Homecoming Queen and kisses her like it's 1945 and he's back from war? The only time the girl reacts like that is in John Hughes movies. In real life the girl freaks out at the violation that is you thinking it's okay to act your romantic fantasy out on her body without permission. Then she smacks you, cries, and BOOM! you, my friend, are 'that rapey guy.'
And wouldn't it be great if Go Daddy thought of women as something other than orgasm inducing arm candy who occasionally incubate and perform domestic tasks?
For your half time entertainment hot chicks will dress in something resembling their underpants while dancing around provocatively. It's cool, though, because it may or may not be an empowering underpants dance like, "Hey everyone, ogling me in my underpants! That's right. I'm awesome. But SUCK IT! Because I don't care what you think, I don't need you, I'm independent. Though my lyrics and current attention demanding gyrating might suggest that my appearance, sexuality, and general self worth do crave a lot of external approval so I only don't need you if everyone else is still willing to validate me. Confused as to where embracing your sexuality ends and objectification begins? Join the club! I'm an enigma wrapped in a mystery wrapped in a bustier! ::: hip thrust :::."
Sexy Lady Scantily Clad For No Practical Reason is not a new advertising technique. In an era of stay at home dads and Hillary 2016 a lot of people have the vocabulary and the guts to call bullshit.
Lord knows they have and I'm thankful for that. And it's been covered. And covered. And covered. Complete with links to the ads and performances.
But let's be real: In the age of 'the only bad kind of buzz is no buzz' the backlash and the outcry are part of the marketing strategy in the first place. Sex sells. So does sexism. When people spot it in such obvious forms blog posts, tweets, and 'water cooler' discussions - in other words, the much craved buzz - inevitably erupt. Crying, "OMG! CONTROVERSIAL!" and providing a youtube link is exactly what they want you to do.
So if sexist content is the new adorably shareable talking animal then what? You've got to call it out. But what do you do when the company making the sexist ad is counting on your call out to create buzz in order to gain name recognition and sell more product?
The question isn't if there is sexism happening here. It's how can we stop sexism from selling?
"For your half time entertainment hot chicks will dress in something resembling their underpants while dancing around provocatively. It's cool, though, because it may or may not be an empowering underpants dance like, "Hey everyone, ogling me in my underpants! That's right. I'm awesome. But SUCK IT! Because I don't care what you think, I don't need you, I'm independent. Though my lyrics and current attention demanding gyrating might suggest that my appearance, sexuality, and general self worth do crave a lot of external approval so I only don't need you if everyone else is still willing to validate me. Confused as to where embracing your sexuality ends and objectification begins? Join the club! I'm an enigma wrapped in a mystery wrapped in a bustier! ::: hip thrust :::."
ReplyDeleteOh my God. I died. That is absolutely PERFECT.
Yay! I'm glad it came across well!
DeleteThank you! And yes to Ashley's comment. I used to think Danica Patrick was so cool for being a race car driver, so I just don't understand why she does those Go Daddy ads.
ReplyDeleteMe neither. Go Daddy, as a company, seems fine but their advertising strategy is off putting.
DeleteI detest Go Daddy ads. I heard the founder of the company speak and he got called on it.
ReplyDeleteGreat post.
Oooh! What did he say when he got called on it?
DeleteYes. I loved that on Twitter, a company (maybe hostgator?) was tweeting: "Offended by another company's ads? Get hosted here!"
ReplyDeleteThat's so cool!
DeleteI think I may be the only woman on the planet not at all bothered by any Superbowl ads or Beyonce's performance. I'm sort of like, "sexism sells." Fact. Not much we can do about it. Another fact. Maybe I've just been so burned out by caring so much about the other political happenings in this multi-faceted country of ours that I don't have the energy to take on the commercials. Except for the Go Daddy ad. My eyes are still bleeding from that.
ReplyDeleteI have to say in terms of things that get me ragey and keep me up nights, superbowl commercials don't make the cut. But I do wonder about the broader phenomenon. On the whole, I'd like to see an advertising world where sexism is less of a draw. I don't think there's an easy fix or anything but I bet it's like most social issues: there's a way to get people to buy into less prejudice, we just haven't gotten there yet.
DeleteI've been with second graders all day and I am not able to articulate anything to add to your argument. I agree with it all.
ReplyDeleteOoof. A day with second graders. That's *rough*. I'm impressed you're even commenting at all!
DeleteI've been reading about this all day. I think you are asking the right question. And of course, there is no easy answer to that question.
ReplyDeleteYeah, it's a tough issue. I'm glad people are talking about it, though.
Delete"But let's be real: In the age of 'the only bad kind of buzz is no buzz' the backlash and the outcry are part of the marketing strategy in the first place." Ex.actly!! They're playing into all of this. The rubes and neanderthals enjoy it for the jiggling bits and the rest of us enjoy it for the "righteous indignation." I guess the only answer is to turn off the TV. But then we'll have to talk to our families about real stuff. Great post!!
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